How difficult is it to learn one more time who your parents really are?
It’s soul crushing! It is AGAINST MY SOUL. To hear from a sibling what your parents feel and say to them about me, their first daughter. All the small comments, opinions, hateful words continue today. Things I have never thought, said etc… towards my two children. This is because a parent should not despise their own. It’s disgusting to me. It hurts my heart deeply. I have to let it go on a daily basis. If I do this chain will continue to break.